Month: December 2025

2025 Months, December 2025

You Don’t Need a Writing Resolution (You Need a Relationship)

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Every January, the writing world fills with promises.

Write every day.

Finish a novel by March.

Publish this year or else.

And while resolutions can sound motivating, they often turn writing into something rigid, performative, and quietly punishing—especially if you’re already tired, overwhelmed, or navigating life alongside your creativity.

Here’s the truth most writers aren’t told:

You don’t need a writing resolution.

You need a relationship with your writing.

Resolutions Treat Writing Like a Task

Relationships Treat It Like a Living Thing

A resolution is transactional.

If I do X, I’ll be a “real” writer.

If I fail, I’ve proven something about myself.

A relationship is different.

A relationship allows:

  • Seasons of closeness and distance
  • Days of deep connection and days of silence
  • Trust that you can return without punishment

Writing isn’t a machine that produces words on command.

It’s a conversation—one that shifts as you do.

Writing Changes As You Change

The way you wrote five years ago may not fit your life now.

Your body might need more rest.

Your mind might need gentler entry points.

Your heart might need safety before it can create again.

A resolution doesn’t ask why writing feels hard.

A relationship does.

It asks:

  • What do I need to feel safe writing today?
  • What kind of creativity fits my energy right now?
  • What would support me instead of pushing me?

Consistency Isn’t the Same as Devotion

You can love your writing deeply and still:

  • Miss days
  • Abandon projects
  • Start over more than once

Devotion isn’t measured in streaks.

It’s measured in returning.

Returning after burnout.

Returning after grief.

Returning after doubt whispers that you’ve “fallen behind.”

A relationship doesn’t end because you were gone.

It welcomes you back.

What a Writing Relationship Actually Looks Like

A healthy writing relationship might include:

  • Writing in short bursts instead of marathons
  • Journaling instead of drafting during hard weeks
  • Letting stories rest without calling them failures
  • Creating without immediately asking for productivity

It’s built on listening—not demanding.

If You’re Starting This Year Tired

You are not behind.

You are not broken.

You are not failing your writing.

You’re just being human.

Instead of asking:

What am I going to force myself to finish this year?

Try asking:

How do I want my writing to feel when I show up?

Gentle.

Curious.

Honest.

Safe.

That answer will guide you far better than any resolution ever could.

This Year, Choose Relationship Over Rules

Let your writing be a place you return to—not a standard you measure yourself against.

You don’t need promises.

You need permission.

Permission to write imperfectly.

Permission to rest.

Permission to begin again.

Your writing will still be there—waiting to meet you where you are.

And that is enough.

Happy Writing ^_^

2025 Months, December 2025

A Writer’s Gentle Year-End Reflection (Without Shame)

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As the year draws to a close, the internet fills with tallies, triumphs, and perfectly packaged recaps.

Words written. Projects finished. Goals crushed.

And if you’re a writer who didn’t hit those milestones—if your year looks quieter, messier, or unfinished—it’s easy to feel like you failed.

But this reflection isn’t about shame.

It’s about honesty, softness, and honoring what actually happened.

This is your permission to reflect without punishment.

First, let’s release the idea that productivity equals worth

You are not your word count.

You are not your number of finished drafts.

You are not behind.

Writing exists inside real lives—lives with illness, grief, jobs, caregiving, burnout, joy, and survival. Some years are about output. Others are about endurance.

If this year asked more of you than you expected, that doesn’t mean you weren’t a writer. It means you were human.

A different way to look back

Instead of asking “What did I accomplish?”, try asking gentler questions:

  • What did I learn about how I write?
  • What boundaries did I discover I need?
  • When did writing feel nourishing—even briefly?
  • What did I survive while still carrying my stories with me?
  • What parts of me grew quieter? What parts grew stronger?

Growth isn’t always loud. Sometimes it looks like rest. Sometimes it looks like stopping before breaking.

Unfinished doesn’t mean unimportant

Those drafts you didn’t finish?

The ideas that stayed half-formed?

The stories you set aside?

They still mattered.

They taught you something. They lived with you during a particular season. And they can be returned to—or lovingly released—when the time is right.

A story doesn’t lose its value just because it waited.

If writing was hard this year

If you struggled to show up…

If your creativity felt distant…

If you doubted yourself more than you created…

You are not broken.

Many writers go through seasons where writing becomes tender, fragile, or slow. That doesn’t mean the well is empty. It often means something inside you needed care first.

Creativity is cyclical. Dormancy is part of the process.

What you’re allowed to carry forward

As the year ends, you don’t need a five-year plan or a perfectly mapped outline. You’re allowed to bring only what feels kind:

  • Curiosity instead of pressure
  • Consistency that bends instead of breaks
  • Goals that honor your capacity
  • Writing that fits your life—not the other way around

You’re allowed to choose gentle momentum over forced discipline.

A small closing reflection (optional)

If it feels helpful, take a moment to write or think through just one sentence:

This year taught me that I am allowed to…

Let that be enough.

You are still a writer

Whether you wrote every day or barely at all.

Whether you finished something or simply held on.

Whether your year was quiet, chaotic, or heavy.

You are still a writer.

Your stories are still waiting—patient, forgiving, and yours.

And next year doesn’t need you to be perfect.

It only needs you to return when you’re ready.

Happy Writing^_^

2025 Months, December 2025

The Space Between Years: Why This Is a Powerful Time for Writers

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There’s a quiet moment most people rush past.

It lives between December and January.

Between what you meant to finish and what you hope to begin.

Between the pressure to “start fresh” and the exhaustion of simply getting through.

For writers, this space is not empty.

It is fertile.

The In-Between Is Not a Void — It’s a Threshold

The space between years isn’t about goals yet.

It isn’t about productivity or word counts or shiny new planners.

It’s a threshold—a pause where your creative self can finally breathe.

This is where:

  • Old stories loosen their grip
  • New ideas begin to hum quietly
  • Your nervous system settles enough to hear yourself again

Writers often mistake stillness for stagnation.

But in nature, stillness is where transformation begins.

Your Creativity Is Reviewing the Past (Even If You Aren’t)

Even if you haven’t journaled, reflected, or planned anything, your creative mind has been doing inventory all on its own.

It’s asking:

  • What drained me this year?
  • What gave me energy—even briefly?
  • What stories still ache?
  • What expectations no longer fit?

This subconscious sorting is why you might feel:

  • Emotionally tender
  • Creatively restless
  • Drawn to old notebooks or half-finished drafts
  • Resistant to rigid planning

Nothing is wrong.

Your creativity is reorganizing itself.

Why Forcing Goals Right Now Often Backfires

There’s pressure everywhere to:

  • Pick a word of the year
  • Set ambitious writing goals
  • Decide what you’ll publish, launch, or finish

But for many writers—especially those dealing with burnout, chronic illness, grief, or big life changes—this can shut creativity down instead of waking it up.

The in-between space isn’t asking for decisions.

It’s asking for listening.

When you skip this pause, you risk carrying last year’s exhaustion straight into the new one.

What This Time Is Actually Good For

This space is ideal for:

  • Gentle reflection without judgment
  • Reconnecting with why you write
  • Letting go of stories that no longer serve you
  • Making peace with unfinished work
  • Noticing what your body and mind need to feel safe creating again

This is where sustainable creativity is born—not from force, but from alignment.

A Gentle Way to Work With This Energy

Instead of planning, try asking softer questions:

  • What kind of writer do I want to feel like next year?
  • What pace supports my health and life right now?
  • What stories am I curious about—not obligated to finish?
  • What would creative safety look like for me?

Write the answers slowly.

Let them be messy.

Let them change.

You don’t need a blueprint yet. You need permission.

The Gift of the In-Between

The space between years is a reminder that you are not a machine resetting on January 1st.

You are a living, evolving storyteller.

And this pause—this quiet, liminal stretch—is where your next chapter begins forming long before the first word is written.

You’re not behind.

You’re not failing.

You’re standing in the doorway.

And that’s a powerful place to be. ✨

Happy Writing ^_^

Milestones

Thank You for 5,000 Views 💛

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I just want to pause for a moment and say thank you.

Hitting 5,000 views isn’t just a number to me—it’s a reminder that these words are landing somewhere. That someone is reading, reflecting, resting, or feeling a little less alone because of something shared here.

When I started this blog, I didn’t do it with the expectation of milestones or metrics. I did it because I needed a place to speak honestly about writing, creativity, burnout, healing, and showing up gently—especially on days when showing up felt hard. To know that thousands of you have spent time here means more than I can put into neat sentences.

This space has grown slowly and quietly, in between real life: chronic illness days, workdays, study sessions, moments of doubt, and moments of hope. And yet—you kept coming back. You read posts about unfinished stories, creative rest, writing through burnout, finding your way back to the page. You shared them. You stayed.

That matters.

What This Milestone Means to Me

5,000 views tells me that:

  • Writing honestly still resonates
  • Gentle creativity has a place online
  • Rest, reflection, and unfinished stories matter
  • Community can grow without hustle or pressure

It tells me that this space is becoming what I hoped it would be—a sanctuary for writers and creatives who want permission to go slower, to be human, and to keep going anyway.

What’s Next

I’m excited about what’s ahead:

  • More reflective blog posts for writers at different seasons
  • Gentle writing prompts and creative resources
  • Small, supportive email courses
  • Tools and encouragement for writers who are tired—but still dreaming

Nothing rushed. Nothing forced. Just growth that feels aligned.

From the Bottom of My Heart

Whether you’ve read one post or many—thank you.
Whether you’re a subscriber, a quiet reader, or someone who stumbled in on a hard day—thank you.
Whether you comment, share, or simply sit with the words—thank you.

This milestone belongs to all of us.

Here’s to the next chapter—written gently, together. ✨

Thank you all so much. Never Expected this.

Happy Writing ^_^

2025 Months, December 2025

The Stories I Didn’t Finish This Year—and Why They Still Matter

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There are stories sitting in my folders right now that don’t have endings.

Some stopped halfway through a chapter.
Some barely made it past the opening pages.
Some exist only as notes, fragments, or feelings I never quite shaped into words.

For a long time, I treated those unfinished stories like evidence of failure.

This year taught me something different.

We Talk a Lot About Finishing—But Not About Surviving

The writing world loves completion.

Finish the draft.
Finish the book.
Finish the series.
Finish strong.

But this year wasn’t about finishing.

It was about surviving burnout, chronic illness flares, emotional exhaustion, big life transitions, and the quiet weight of showing up every day even when creativity felt distant. Some days, just opening a document felt like a victory.

In that kind of year, not finishing a story doesn’t mean it didn’t matter.

It means it existed during a hard season—and that counts.

Unfinished Doesn’t Mean Unimportant

Every unfinished story still did something for me:

  • It held emotion I didn’t yet have words for
  • It helped me explore an idea without demanding perfection
  • It reminded me that my imagination was still alive, even when my energy wasn’t

Some stories were never meant to be finished this year. They were meant to teach, to test, to comfort, or simply to exist as proof that I was still a writer—even on the days I didn’t feel like one.

A story doesn’t lose its value because it pauses.

Sometimes Stories Stop Because We Need To

There’s a narrative that if a story stalls, it’s because of discipline or motivation.

But often, stories stop because the writer needs rest.

This year, my body and mind asked for more gentleness than usual. Writing through pain, fatigue, GI flares, and depression changes the way creativity flows. Some days, the most compassionate choice was to stop—not because the story failed, but because I needed care.

And that’s not weakness.
That’s listening.

Those Stories Are Still Waiting—Not Gone

Here’s the quiet truth I’m carrying into the next year:

Unfinished stories don’t disappear.

They wait.

They change shape.
They deepen while we live.
They return when the timing is right.

Some of the stories I didn’t finish this year will come back stronger because I didn’t force them through exhaustion. Others may remain fragments forever—and that’s okay too. Not every story’s purpose is publication. Some exist just to walk with us for a while.

Redefining Success as a Writer

This year forced me to redefine what success looks like.

Success wasn’t finishing everything I started.
Success was not giving up entirely.
Success was returning to the page when I could.
Success was honoring my limits without abandoning my love for storytelling.

The stories I didn’t finish are proof that I kept dreaming, even when it was hard.

And that matters.

If You’re Carrying Unfinished Stories Too

If you’re looking at your own unfinished drafts with guilt or frustration, I want you to hear this:

You are not behind.
You did not fail your stories.
You did not waste your time.

Those stories met you where you were—and that’s enough.

You’re allowed to rest.
You’re allowed to pause.
You’re allowed to come back when you’re ready.

The stories that matter most will wait for you.

Happy Writing ^_^

2025 Months, December 2025

Rest Is a Creative Skill (Not a Failure)

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Somewhere along the way, many writers were taught a quiet lie:

If you’re not producing, you’re failing.

If you rest, you’re falling behind.

If you pause, you’re losing momentum.

If you slow down, you’re “not serious enough.”

But here’s the truth most creative spaces forget to tell you:

Rest is not the opposite of creativity.

Rest is one of its most important skills.

And like any skill, it can be learned, practiced, and honored.

The Productivity Myth That Hurts Writers

We live in a culture that rewards visible output. Word counts. Deadlines. Daily streaks. “Grind” narratives that treat exhaustion as a badge of honor.

That mindset might work for machines.

It does not work for creative humans.

Writing doesn’t come from constant pressure—it comes from:

  • mental spaciousness
  • emotional processing
  • subconscious connection
  • curiosity and play

When those wells run dry, no amount of forcing will refill them.

What Rest Is 

Actually

 Doing for Your Writing

When you rest, your creativity doesn’t stop. It shifts into a quieter mode.

During rest, your brain:

  • makes new connections between ideas
  • integrates emotional experiences
  • solves story problems in the background
  • recovers from sensory and cognitive overload

That “sudden idea” you get in the shower?

That plot solution that appears while you’re lying down?

That character voice that returns after weeks away?

That’s rest at work.

Rest Isn’t Avoidance — It’s Maintenance

Avoidance feels heavy and guilt-ridden.

Rest feels restoring, even if it’s unfamiliar at first.

The difference often shows up in your body:

  • Rest softens your shoulders
  • Rest slows your breathing
  • Rest gives your nervous system room to reset

Writers—especially those managing chronic illness, pain, mental health challenges, or burnout—cannot create sustainably without intentional recovery.

You are not broken for needing more rest.

You are responding wisely to your limits.

You’re Still a Writer When You’re Resting

This is worth saying clearly:

You don’t stop being a writer when you stop writing for a while.

You are still a writer when you:

  • reread old work instead of drafting
  • daydream scenes without typing them
  • take weeks (or months) to recover
  • choose sleep, nourishment, or quiet over output

Your identity does not disappear just because your pace changes.

How to Practice Rest as a Creative Skill

Rest doesn’t have to mean “do nothing forever.”

It means listening and responding instead of pushing.

Here are gentle ways to practice creative rest:

  • Schedule guilt-free downtime (and protect it)
  • Let projects go dormant without deleting them
  • Consume art slowly—books, music, images—without analyzing
  • Write notes instead of scenes when energy is low
  • Allow seasons where rest is the work

Think of rest as sharpening the blade, not abandoning the craft.

A Reminder You Might Need Today

You are not behind.

You are not lazy.

You are not failing your creativity.

You are tending it.

And creativity that is tended—rather than forced—lasts longer, goes deeper, and returns stronger.

So if today asks you to rest, listen.

That’s not quitting.

That’s skill.

Happy Writing ^_^

2025 Months, December 2025

What to Do With Your Writing Energy After the Holidays

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The holidays have a strange effect on creative energy.

Some writers feel completely drained—burned out by social obligations, disrupted routines, and emotional weight. Others feel oddly restless, buzzing with ideas they didn’t have time to touch. And many of us feel both at once: tired, but full.

If you’re staring at your notebook or screen wondering “What now?”—this post is for you.

There is no correct way to return to writing after the holidays. But there are gentle ways to listen to your energy instead of fighting it.

First: Don’t Force “Fresh Start” Energy

January is often framed as a restart button. New goals. New routines. New productivity.

But creativity doesn’t reset on a calendar.

If your writing energy feels quiet, heavy, scattered, or tender right now, that doesn’t mean you’re behind. It means you’re still metabolizing the season—emotionally, mentally, creatively.

Before asking what should I write? ask:

  • Do I feel tired or restless?
  • Am I craving structure or freedom?
  • Do I want to create, reflect, or rest?

Your answers matter more than any productivity plan.

If Your Writing Energy Feels Low

Low energy doesn’t mean “do nothing.” It means do differently.

Try:

  • Tiny writing windows (5–10 minutes)
  • Low-stakes writing (journals, notes, voice memos)
  • Revisiting old work without pressure to fix it
  • Reading instead of writing—especially comfort reads or poetry

Think of this phase as warming the muscles, not running a marathon.

Writing energy often returns quietly, not with fireworks.

If Your Writing Energy Feels Scattered

If your brain is loud but unfocused—ideas everywhere, no clear direction—don’t try to wrangle everything at once.

Instead:

  • Brain-dump ideas onto one messy page
  • Make a “not now” list for later projects
  • Choose one small thread to follow this week
  • Use prompts to give your creativity a container

Scattered energy wants gentle structure, not restriction.

If Your Writing Energy Feels Strong (But Fragile)

Sometimes post-holiday energy comes with excitement—and fear.

You might feel:

  • Inspired but afraid to start
  • Motivated but overwhelmed
  • Ready to write, yet unsure what to write

When energy feels precious, protect it:

  • Start with a warm-up instead of diving into the “important” work
  • Set intention over word count
  • Write unfinished on purpose so it’s easier to return tomorrow

Strong energy doesn’t need pressure to be productive. It needs space.

Reflect Before You Plan

Before setting goals, spend a little time reflecting:

  • What kind of writing felt best last year?
  • Where did I feel most drained?
  • What do I want less of this year?
  • What pace actually supports my health, life, and creativity?

Your answers can guide you toward a writing year that feels sustainable—not punishing.

Let Your Writing Year Begin Softly

You don’t have to:

  • Write daily
  • Start a big project immediately
  • Commit to anything forever

You can:

  • Show up imperfectly
  • Write in seasons
  • Change your mind
  • Let writing be quiet for a while

Creativity doesn’t disappear when you rest. It gathers.

A Gentle Reminder

Your writing energy is not something to conquer.

It’s something to listen to.

After the holidays, your job isn’t to produce—it’s to reconnect. The words will follow.

Happy Writing ^_^

2025 Months, December 2025

🎄 A Quiet Christmas Gift for Writers

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This season, I wanted to offer something different.

Not another checklist.
Not a “write faster” challenge.
Not a shiny, surface-level holiday prompt pack.

Instead, I created a gift for writers who want to slow down, go inward, and write with intention—across any genre, including fiction, nonfiction, memoir, and poetry.

✨ Introducing: 100 Christmas Writing Challenges

These prompts aren’t about forcing joy or recreating postcard holidays.

They’re about:

  • memory and time
  • grief and healing
  • belonging and identity
  • love, distance, and silence
  • transformation, endings, and becoming

They’re for writers who:

  • feel complicated about the holidays
  • write through chronic illness, grief, or burnout
  • prefer depth over productivity
  • want prompts that hold space instead of rushing answers

This collection was designed to meet you where you are, not where tradition says you “should” be.

🌲 What Makes These Writing Challenges Different

Each challenge is intentionally expanded and reflective, inviting you to:

  • Write scenes, not snippets
  • Explore inner change, not just plot
  • Use the same prompt for fiction, essay, memoir, or poetry
  • Sit with complexity instead of resolving it too quickly

These aren’t “finish in 10 minutes” prompts.

They’re invitations to:

  • linger
  • question
  • listen
  • return to the page gently

You can spend one session or several days with a single challenge.

🖋️ Designed for All Writers & All Genres

Whether you write:

  • fantasy, romance, horror, or literary fiction
  • personal essays or reflective nonfiction
  • poetry, prose poetry, or hybrid work
  • journal entries you never plan to share

These challenges are intentionally open-ended, so your voice—not the prompt—leads the way.

Each one can be approached as:

  • a scene
  • a lyric meditation
  • a braided essay
  • a journal reflection
  • or a single powerful paragraph

There is no “right” outcome—only honest engagement.

❄️ You Don’t Have to Write Happy to Write Meaningfully

One of the quiet truths of December is this:

Not every season of life feels festive—and that doesn’t make your writing less valid.

This gift was created especially for writers who:

  • feel pressure to be joyful
  • struggle with the holidays
  • are carrying grief, fatigue, or change
  • want permission to write what’s real

You are allowed to write Christmas as:

  • reflective
  • unresolved
  • soft
  • dark
  • quiet
  • hopeful in small ways

All of it belongs.

🎁 How to Use This Gift

You might:

  • choose one challenge a day
  • circle the ones that call to you and ignore the rest
  • write only a paragraph at a time
  • return to the same prompt year after year
  • use them as journaling anchors when words feel far away

There’s no deadline.
No completion requirement.
No pressure.

Just a page, a pen, and your voice.

🤍 A Gentle Invitation

If you’ve been feeling disconnected from your writing…
If December feels heavy or complicated…
If you want to create without forcing cheer…

This gift is for you.

May these prompts meet you with kindness, depth, and room to breathe.

You don’t need to write the Christmas story you think you should write.

You only need to write the one that’s true.

— Sara
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2025 Months, December 2025

On Christmas Eve, Let Your Stories Rest

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Christmas Eve carries a different kind of quiet.

Even in homes filled with light, music, or family, there’s a pause in the air—a sense that something is waiting. The rushing slows. The expectations soften. The world inhales before tomorrow.

Your stories feel that shift too.

If you’re a writer who has been pushing through deadlines, guilt, burnout, illness, or simply the weight of showing up every day, Christmas Eve is not a day to force words onto the page. It’s a day to let your stories rest.

Rest Is Not Abandonment

Letting your stories rest does not mean you’ve failed them.

It doesn’t mean you’ve given up.
It doesn’t mean you’ve lost your identity as a writer.
It doesn’t mean the magic is gone.

Stories, like people, need pauses. They need quiet spaces where they’re allowed to exist without being used or improved or finished.

Tonight, your characters don’t need to perform.
Your plot doesn’t need fixing.
Your unfinished draft doesn’t need an apology.

It just needs permission to breathe.

Stories Grow in Stillness

Some of the most important creative work happens when you are not writing.

When you’re resting, your mind continues to weave threads.
When you’re sleeping, your imagination wanders.
When you’re present in the moment—lighting candles, watching snow fall, sitting in silence—your stories are still listening.

Christmas Eve is a threshold. A liminal space between what has been and what’s coming next. That’s fertile ground for creativity, even if no words appear on the page tonight.

You Are Allowed to Be Human First

Many writers struggle during the holidays—especially those carrying chronic illness, grief, mental health challenges, or exhaustion from trying to do too much for too long.

If writing has felt heavy lately, that doesn’t make you weak.
If you haven’t met your goals this year, that doesn’t erase your worth.
If all you can do tonight is rest, that is still enough.

You are not a machine designed to produce stories.
You are a living being who creates because you feel, imagine, and survive.

And tonight, survival and softness matter more than productivity.

A Gentle Invitation for Tonight

Instead of writing, consider this:

  • Sit with your story in your thoughts, without judgment.
  • Light a candle and imagine it warming your characters.
  • Whisper gratitude for the ideas that stayed with you this year.
  • Promise your story you’ll return when you’re ready—not when you’re pressured.

No notebook required.
No word count expected.
No hustle allowed.

Tomorrow Will Come

Your stories are not going anywhere.

They’ll still be there after the holiday lights dim.
They’ll still want you when the calendar turns.
They’ll still recognize you—even if you’ve been quiet for a while.

Tonight, let Christmas Eve be what it’s meant to be:
A pause.
A breath.
A moment of grace.

Let your stories rest.

They trust you to come back when the time is right. 🌙✨

Happy Writing ^_^
Merry Christmas Eve

2025 Months, December 2025

What This Year Taught Me About Writing (Without Hustle)

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This year didn’t teach me how to write faster.
It didn’t teach me how to publish more.
It didn’t teach me how to push through at all costs.

What it taught me was quieter—and far more important.

It taught me how to keep writing without burning myself out.

This year has been a lot.

Between moving, finishing college, and the slow creep of burnout, writing hasn’t felt easy—or joyful—the way it once did. I’ve struggled not just to write, but to want to write, and that loss of enjoyment has been one of the hardest parts.

My health hasn’t helped. Over the last few months, ongoing GI issues and chronic pain have taken a real toll on my body and energy. When you’re already exhausted, pain doesn’t just affect your physical limits—it seeps into your creativity, your focus, and your sense of self.

Depression followed quietly but persistently. It made even small tasks feel heavy. Showing up for my website. Working on my own stories. Doing the things I care deeply about—all of it took more effort than I expected, and more time than I hoped.

On top of that, I work a full-time job. Juggling work, health, school transitions, and creative goals has been overwhelming at times. The constant pressure of doing everything every day adds up, and I’ve felt that weight deeply this year.

For a long time, I believed that writing had to look a certain way to “count.”
Daily word counts. Streaks. Deadlines that didn’t bend. If I wasn’t pushing, I felt like I was failing.

This year gently dismantled that belief.

Consistency Isn’t the Same as Pressure

I learned that showing up doesn’t mean forcing myself to perform on days when my body or mind is struggling.

Some days, showing up looked like:

  • Writing a single paragraph
  • Jotting down a character note
  • Revising one sentence
  • Or simply opening the document and sitting with it
  • Or just reading

Consistency, for me, became about returning—not producing.

And that shift changed everything.

Writing Is Cyclical, Not Linear

There were weeks when ideas poured out effortlessly.
There were months when silence felt heavy.

Instead of panicking during the quiet periods, I started listening.

Creativity has seasons:

  • Growth
  • Rest
  • Integration
  • Renewal

This year taught me that rest isn’t a failure—it’s part of the process. Stories don’t disappear when we pause. They deepen.

Hustle Culture Lies About Worth

One of the hardest lessons was unlearning the idea that my value as a writer depended on productivity.

I didn’t write less because I was lazy.
I wrote differently because I was human.

Writing through illness, chronic pain, emotional weight, and real life required softness—not discipline sharpened into a weapon.

Letting go of hustle allowed me to:

  • Write with more honesty
  • Choose projects intentionally
  • Protect my creative energy

Small Work Still Matters

Some of the most meaningful writing I did this year never turned into polished pieces.

It lived in:

  • Journal pages
  • Half-finished drafts
  • Voice notes
  • Fragmented scenes

And yet, that work mattered.

Those fragments are seeds.
Those pages are proof.
Those quiet moments are where stories begin.

Writing as a Relationship, Not a Demand

The biggest lesson of all?

I didn’t give up.

I slowed down.
I took longer than planned.
I rested when I needed to—even when it felt uncomfortable or disappointing.

Progress didn’t always look like momentum. Sometimes it looked like survival. Sometimes it looked like patience. Sometimes it looked like choosing not to quit when everything felt heavier than it should.

Writing doesn’t have to be something I chase.
It can be something I return to.

When I stopped demanding results from myself, writing became safer again.
More honest.
More mine.

Moving Forward, Gently

I’m not leaving this year with a promise to “do more.”

I’m leaving it with permission to:

  • Write slower
  • Rest without guilt
  • Trust my process
  • Create in ways that honor my life instead of fighting it

I’m still here.
My stories are still here.
And my love for writing—even when it’s quiet—hasn’t disappeared.

It’s just resting. And that’s okay.

Happy Writing ^_^