Tag: mental-health

About Myself, February 2025

Writing Through Chronic Illness – Balancing Health and Creativity

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Writing through chronic illness isn’t easy. I live with chronic pain and other long-term conditions caused by trauma and prolonged stress from events in my twenties. I don’t share this for pity but to show that even in the hardest times, some things can still bring joy.

For years, I struggled to be believed—by both family and doctors—about what I knew was wrong with my body. Eventually, I found the help I needed and learned how to live with my illness. While I still have bad days, I do my best to make time for the things I love. Unfortunately, writing isn’t something I can do every day, but I’m always thinking about stories and planning how they will unfold.

When I’m not able to write, I try to read. I’m working toward getting a new Kindle so I can get back to reading more books. I usually listen to audiobooks while working, but I think it’s time to go back to reading and allowing myself a break from my phone, free from the distractions of social media and other apps. Growing up, long before e-readers existed, I always had a paperback book or two with me. Even now, I carry a notebook wherever I go, just in case inspiration strikes. I don’t use my phone for notes—I guess I’m a bit old-fashioned when it comes to jotting down ideas. However, most of my stories are written on the computer, with my handwritten notes serving as a place to store ideas I can always revisit.

Fatigue and pain make it difficult to sit and write, especially after a long day of work and full-time studies. Still, I’m determined to pursue my passion. I’m also working on creating and selling digital tools for writers, which excites me. Helping other writers bring their stories to life would be incredibly rewarding. Writing has always been my escape, and when I do get the chance to write for hours, it’s pure joy.

Lately, life has been hectic—family drama and major changes have kept me from having many writing days. With an upcoming move to a different state, my writing has taken a backseat. Despite these challenges, I’ve been fortunate to meet people who encourage and support me. My friends, especially, are my greatest source of motivation when it comes to my writing.

Balancing health and creativity is a challenge, but writing remains a part of me, even when I can’t physically put words on the page.

Happy Writing ^_^

About Myself, January 2025, writing-tips

The Connection Between Wellness and Creativity: My Personal Journey

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Have you ever noticed how your body and emotions can affect your ability to be creative? I’ve found that my physical health and emotional well-being are deeply tied to how much I can write or come up with new ideas. It took me some time to realize this connection, but once I did, it changed the way I approach my creative work.

The Physical Side of Creativity

When my body feels good, my mind works better. Over the years, I’ve learned that doing things I enjoy or that make me happy often helps my creativity. However, there are days when I feel sluggish or in pain—and on those days, my brain feels foggy, and it’s harder to focus. That’s when small, intentional actions make all the difference. Simple things like sitting outside to enjoy the day or relaxing with a good book can be enough to recharge my mind.

The Emotional Side of Creativity

Emotions are tricky. When I’m feeling overwhelmed, sad, or anxious, my creativity often takes a hit. But I’ve also noticed that when I lean into those feelings instead of fighting them, they can inspire my work. Writing becomes a way to process what I’m going through.

Some things that help me emotionally include:

  • Journaling: Writing for myself—just to get thoughts and feelings out—often makes me feel lighter.
  • Self-compassion: Reminding myself that it’s okay to have off days helps me bounce back quicker.
  • Connection: Talking to a friend or loved one about how I’m feeling eases emotional stress and helps me refocus.

Emotions can have a huge impact on creativity, both blocking and inspiring it. When I wrote poetry, my emotions were often the fuel. But when writing fiction, strong emotions sometimes stop my inspiration—especially for certain scenes. For example, going through a breakup can make it hard to write a love story or romantic scene.

How Wellness Fuels Creativity

When my body feels good and my emotions are in balance, creativity flows more naturally. I’m able to sit down and write without struggling as much. But I’ve also learned that creativity isn’t about being perfect; it’s about showing up. Even on tough days, taking small steps—like jotting down ideas or writing a few sentences—keeps me moving forward.

My Tips for Balancing Wellness and Creativity

If you’re looking to boost your creativity through wellness, here are a few tips that have worked for me:

  1. Listen to Your Body: Pay attention to how you feel and take breaks when you need them.
  2. Create a Routine: Having a regular schedule for writing, even if it’s just 10 minutes a day, helps build consistency.
  3. Find What Inspires You: Whether it’s music, nature, or a favorite book, surround yourself with things that spark your creativity.
  4. Be Patient with Yourself: Creativity has its ups and downs. It’s okay to take time to recharge.

A Final Thought

Taking care of your physical and emotional health isn’t just about feeling good—it’s also about giving yourself the best chance to create. When you’re well, your creativity has the space to thrive. For me, the journey to balance hasn’t been perfect, but it’s been worth it.

What about you? Have you noticed a connection between your wellness and creativity? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments.

Happy Writing ^_^

January 2025, writing-tips

Journaling for Writing

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Journaling has been one of the most helpful tools in my writing journey. When I first started, I didn’t realize how much it could improve my creativity, focus, and even the way I tell stories. If you’re looking for a simple way to level up your writing, I can’t recommend journaling enough. Let me share why.

For me, journaling is like having a conversation with myself. It’s a safe space where I can let my thoughts flow without worrying about judgment or perfection. Some days, I write about my feelings or things happening in my life. Other days, I scribble random story ideas, bits of dialogue, or even descriptions of things I see around me. It doesn’t have to be organized or pretty—just honest.

What I’ve noticed is that journaling helps me clear my mind. You know those days when your thoughts feel all tangled up? Writing them down makes it easier to untangle them. Once my mind feels clearer, it’s so much easier to focus on my creative projects. I’ve had moments where something I journaled about turned into the seed for an entire story. It’s like finding hidden treasures in your own words.

Another thing I love about journaling is how it helps me practice writing regularly. It’s like a warm-up before the main event. Some days, it’s just a few sentences, and other days, I’ll fill pages. Either way, it keeps me in the habit of putting pen to paper (or fingers to keyboard). Over time, this consistency has helped me feel more confident as a writer.

Journaling has also taught me to be more observant. When I jot down little details about my day, like how the sky looked or how someone’s laughter sounded, I’m training myself to notice the small things. These little details often make my fiction more vivid and real.

Beyond its benefits for writing, journaling has been incredibly helpful for my mental health. When I’m dealing with writer’s block, journaling becomes my lifeline. It gives me a space to explore what’s causing the block—whether it’s stress, self-doubt, or simply feeling stuck. Writing out my frustrations or fears helps me process them, and often, I find solutions or a fresh perspective. It’s like having a therapist on the page.

For fiction writers, journaling can be a goldmine. It’s a place to brainstorm character backstories, plot twists, or even new worlds. I’ve often found that freewriting in my journal leads to breakthroughs in my stories. It’s also a great way to experiment with different voices or styles without any pressure.

If you’re new to journaling, don’t overthink it. Start simple. Maybe write about your day, a dream you had, or something you’re grateful for. You could even use prompts if you’re feeling stuck. The key is to let go of the pressure to make it perfect. Your journal is just for you.

Over time, you might be surprised at how much your journaling practice influences your other writing. I know I was. It’s such a simple habit, but it’s made a huge difference for me. So grab a notebook, open a blank document, or even use a journaling app—whatever feels right. Give yourself the gift of journaling, and see where it takes you. Trust me, your writing will thank you for it.

Happy Writing ^_^

About Myself, January 2025, writing-tips

Balancing Writing with Health Challenges: My Personal Tips

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Writing can be such a fulfilling and creative outlet, but when you’re dealing with chronic health challenges like fibromyalgia, chronic inflammation, chronic pain, or mental health issues like depression, it’s not always easy. These challenges can make even the simplest tasks feel overwhelming. I know firsthand how tough it can be to keep going when your body or mind feels like it’s working against you. That’s why I want to share some simple, personal tips that have helped me balance writing with managing my health.

1. Go Easy on Yourself

Some days are harder than others, and that’s okay. Instead of pushing yourself too hard, try to:

  • Write when you feel your best, whether that’s early morning or late at night.
  • Set small, doable goals, like writing for 10 minutes or just a few sentences.
  • Remind yourself that every little bit counts. Progress is progress, no matter how small.

2. Make Your Writing Space Cozy

Your environment can make a big difference when you’re dealing with pain or fatigue:

  • Use a comfortable chair and set up your desk so you’re not straining.
  • Add things that make you happy, like a favorite candle, a soft blanket, or photos you love.
  • Keep it simple and clutter-free to reduce stress.

3. Take Breaks and Move

Sitting too long can make pain and stiffness worse, and it can also make you feel more down:

  • Set a timer to remind yourself to get up and stretch every 30 minutes.
  • Do some light stretches, take a short walk, or even just stand and shake out your arms.
  • Use these moments to reset your mind and body.

4. Be Kind to Your Mind

When you’re struggling with depression or anxiety, writing can feel overwhelming. Try to:

  • Break tasks into tiny steps. If starting feels hard, focus on just opening your notebook or document.
  • Keep a journal to let your feelings out—sometimes writing about what you’re feeling can be freeing.
  • Take the pressure off. Your writing doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to be yours.

5. Listen to Your Body

It’s easy to ignore pain or exhaustion when you’re in the flow, but it’s important to:

  • Drink plenty of water and eat foods that make you feel good.
  • Rest when you need to. Writing will still be there tomorrow.
  • Try relaxation techniques like deep breathing or mindfulness to calm your body and mind.

6. Celebrate Small Wins

Chronic illness and mental health struggles can make it hard to feel like you’re accomplishing anything, but:

  • Celebrate every small step, like finishing a sentence or even just sitting down to write.
  • Remind yourself of the progress you’ve made over time.
  • It’s not about perfection; it’s about showing up.

7. Use Tools That Make It Easier

When your energy is low or your body’s hurting, let technology help:

  • Try voice-to-text if typing is hard.
  • Use apps to organize your notes and ideas so you don’t have to rely on memory.
  • Editing tools like Grammarly can save you extra effort.

8. Lean on Your Community

You’re not alone, and there are people who understand what you’re going through:

  • Connect with other writers online who deal with similar challenges.
  • Share your journey with friends or family who can support you.
  • Don’t be afraid to ask for help, whether it’s feedback on your writing or just a listening ear.

9. Write What Feels True

Sometimes, your health struggles can inspire your writing in unexpected ways:

  • Use your experiences to create characters or stories that feel real and relatable.
  • Explore themes of resilience, growth, or hope—or just write to process your feelings.
  • Your voice matters, and your perspective is important.

A Final Thought

Living with chronic conditions or mental health challenges isn’t easy, and neither is writing. But together, they can create something beautiful. Be gentle with yourself, take it one day at a time, and remember that every word you write is an achievement. You’re not alone, and your story is worth sharing.

What about you? How do you balance writing with health challenges? I’d love to hear your tips and experiences in the comments!

Happy Writing ^_^