What I Wish I Knew Before Writing My First Novel

Writing a novel for the first time is like stepping into a forest with only a vague map and a flashlight that keeps flickering. You think you know where you’re going—until you don’t. Looking back, there are so many things I wish someone had told me before I typed “Chapter One.” If you’re just starting your writing journey, here are some truths I learned the hard way.

1. It Won’t Be Perfect—And That’s Okay

I wasted so much time rewriting the first few chapters, trying to make them perfect. Spoiler: they still needed massive edits later. I wish I had just kept going instead of obsessing. The first draft is supposed to be messy. It’s about telling yourself the story, not publishing it.

2. Outlining Isn’t the Enemy

I used to think outlines would crush my creativity, but a simple roadmap would have saved me from so many plot holes and pacing issues. Even a loose outline or beat sheet can help keep your story on track when the middle gets murky.

3. Characters Will Surprise You

No matter how much planning I did, my characters had minds of their own. They grew, changed, rebelled, and sometimes hijacked the plot. I learned to listen to them—they often knew the story better than I did.

4. Writing Is Rewriting

Finishing the first draft feels like crossing the finish line. But in truth, it’s just the beginning. Revision is where the real magic happens. I didn’t realize how much better a story could become after cutting, reworking, and polishing. Embrace it.

5. Imposter Syndrome Is Normal

At some point, I was sure I was a terrible writer and that everything I wrote was garbage. Turns out, most writers feel this way—especially during the middle of a novel. Keep going. Your doubt doesn’t get the final say.

6. Find Your Support System

Whether it’s a writing group, critique partner, or online community, find people who understand the ups and downs of writing. You don’t have to do it alone—and sometimes, encouragement from a fellow writer is the push you need to keep going.

7. Publishing Isn’t the Only Goal

I was so focused on publishing that I forgot to enjoy the journey. Writing teaches you about yourself, stretches your creativity, and builds resilience. Your first novel might not be the one that gets published—but it’s the one that proves you can finish.

8. Your Voice Matters

It’s easy to compare your writing to others and feel like you don’t measure up. But your unique voice and perspective are your strengths. The world needs your story—told your way.

Writing my first novel was one of the hardest and most rewarding things I’ve ever done. I didn’t know what I was doing—but I did it anyway. And so can you.

If you’re just starting your novel—or struggling somewhere in the messy middle—keep going. You’re learning, growing, and creating something only you can bring to life.

What’s something you wish you knew before writing your first novel? Let’s chat in the comments.

Happy Writing ^_^